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I am enjoying watching Mac grow up one post at a time.

We should try to be nicer to others.

Last edited by SuperJail Warden (2022-11-01 13:03:59)

it’s honestly just pretty wrong that you’re even turning this into some anonymous reddit persona. what are you looking for? upvotes? validation? for someone to tell you that you’re the man?

have you become so desensitised to gore and violence and snuff on the internet that you think this is normal behaviour? it’s not man. anyone can pick up easy women on dating apps. welcome to the 2020s. you are demeaning these girls with this smutty low-class rubbish (‘ooouhh daddy’s little hooo-ah got her payment!’) this is lame behaviour and i think you should source your self-confidence from a healthier place.

uziq wrote:

with these dating apps have come great power to pick up unstable and desperate women, it seems, and you’re not rising very well to such giddying responsibilities.

Oh wow. I never thought about it that way before.


I do have a responsibility to treat these unstable women with more respect than I have. Thank you Uncle Uzique and Aunt Larssen.

I don't see it as degrading. Reddit is full of people doing the same thing. No one is getting hurt. I am not hanging out online with extremists or something looking at guns and being angry like many people do on Twitter and other places.

SuperJail Warden wrote:

I don't emotionally or physically abuse them. I know that bar is on the ground but going by what women tell me alone, a lot of guys treat them way worse.

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I am going to be more clear about my intentions with girls going forward since I am aware I could love bomb and dangle a potential relationship in front of a girl to get what I want (#Stories.) I would be unsurprised if a few girls are actually more interested in me once I have a partner.

I just need to think up a way to convince the girl I am with to let me indulge my sexual impulses in return for being a loving and caring partner.

How do I broach this conversation?

The girl I took to my friends party and club on Friday told me (out of nowhere) that she doesn't mind if I'm dating other girls and won't get jealous. I didn't really say anything in response but appreciated the confirmation.

I guess she (correctly) assumed I'm seeing other people as I've recently been taking several hours to reply to her on some nights.

We had previously said that this is just fun and nothing serious during the inevitable 'what are you looking for' question when dating. Just be honest with them.

i was tired last night and perhaps mistakenly thought you were actually posting multiple instances of home-made amateur porn to reddit with all these different women you're seeing. now i guess it's just highly fanciful smut and walls of text.

but i would still sincerely question the intentions and healthiness of seeing as many women as possible so that you can upconvert these intimate encounters into grist for a reddit mill. at some point you're going to stop having healthy, genuine human connections with these people and it's all going to be about pure sensation, increasingly extreme experiences, and your dumb little reddit account. i really don't think it's worth it.

'many people do it on reddit', yada yada. that doesn't mean any of them necessarily have a healthy relationship with women or their own sex life. many people do porn too and an alarmingly high number of them are walking shells.

i didn't say pornstars can't lead healthy lifestyles, make money, and get out of the business. but i am saying that it has a very conspicuous proportion of damaged people, and a very high number of starlets 'burn out', develop bad addictions, or generally ruin their life in some way, at levels generally unseen in 95% of other industries. i'm really not sure of the wisdom of going down the route of porn, tbh.

as i said before, i've been on and off dating apps for as long as they've been a thing, i've had several good runs on them. but it's never occurred to me to start using all these experiences for a smutty reddit account, or to start making homemade porn. that doesn't really seem healthy to me tbh. you are purposefully placing yourself in a cesspool. why do you want the approbation of incels, exactly? why are you spending your time doing this?

as larssen said, there's something slightly bipolar about enrolling in therapy the one minute and then triumphing with walls of purple prose on reddit the next.

Maybe this isn't a phase. Maybe this is really who I am. I have been taking my medicine 5 days a week. I only get high Friday and Saturdays. I threw all the vapes away. I go to political and charity events. I meet and interact with important people. And I write smut on the internet under a pseudonym.

And while it may seem bizarre that I am desperately collecting sexual experiences to write about on Reddit, this is a lot better of a hobby than watching people go boom or hating on the gays like a lot of people do on social media. Would you prefer I read QAnon?

The hard thing is that it is nearly a full time job. Dauntless knows about this.

how about getting a regular and decent hobby? ‘so i’m using and humiliating women on reddit? so what, it’s better than watching live streams of school shootings!’

even i don’t believe you’re that morally lost. you teach children ffs.

he covered interesting topics of sociological or historical interest. you’re picking up easy lays on a dating app and humiliating them on a website for losers.

i never moaned about my lifestyle being affected? are we doing this again, dilbert? really? i sat at home, just like you, for years ... i was shielding a critically vulnerable person in my close family, you fucking idiot, of course i had no problem with obeying lockdowns and distancing guidelines ...

i moved when international travel began to resume and when, you know, world governments in charge of this thing deemed it acceptable. i didn't push or chafe against restrictions. i never ranted about social distancing measures or mask-wearing or any of the rest of it. i have been perfectly compliant.

so my biggest crime is: i followed the general, worldwide epidemiological consensus? i began to move again when the airlines, governments and health authorities deemed it OK? i followed the rules, in other words? don't pretend i wasn't coming to this forum with a weekly commentary and discussion of the changing epidemiological picture. i had read the reports. i was up-to-date with the thinking.

and now i'm suddenly responsible for the weekly death toll by doing this? i'm insufficiently sympathetic with victims? really? this is the best you've got against me, you sad little coward?

Yes, who cares about 100 people dying in a single day? Silly. As long as its out of sight its no biggy.
Whats important is getting nightclubs open so people can party.

oh, amazing work there. me speaking in a discussion half a year ago about the secondary impacts on continuously locked down schoolchildren now means that i don't care, or i'm some sort of hypocrite, when 150 young adults are crushed to death in front of my eyes in a mass tragedy? how do you even settle with your conscience when you make such dishonest, snake-like arguments?

because that post wasn't about me moaning over covid restrictions in toto, or for my sake. in context it was a post made relatively recently when every epidemiological body on earth, excepting perhaps the CCP's and taiwan's, were recommending the resumption of schools and offices, etc. and i do think there is a valid discussion to be had, actually, when we are AFTER the invention of efficacious vaccines and when the death rate in the under 30s/under 21s/etc is INFINITESIMALLY SMALL, yes, i do think there's a valid discussion about allowing them to experience things like summer festivals and large events.

the NHS trialled this in the mid-part of the pandemic. they hosted a large arena-sized event, using vaccination, test certificates, contact tracing apps, etc, all the tools at their disposal. want to know how many covid clusters were traced to that event? ZERO.  in total, 37 such large-scale trials were conducted. they were deemed safe by the government. THAT was clearly what i was referencing in my post re:covid restrictions: NOT 'i hate all restrictions to myyyyy lifestyle'. NOT 'i don't care if young people die en masse lol'.

are you seriously fucking gone in the head or what?

do yourself a favour and FUCK OFF.

Last edited by uziq (2022-11-02 02:31:34)