dude stfuDilbert_X wrote:
The bodies aren't even cold and you're already thinking about how it will affect your party lifestyle.uziq wrote:
going to take some flowers tomorrow morning and think about GTFO’ing this district in november.. this is an historic event and i don’t think this area will recover from it for years.
Wow.
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So what did that mean exactly? Sounds like a ski-bum following the weather TBHGTFO’ing this district in november....i don’t think this area will recover
yes, i've rented this apartment for 6 months now, my rent agreement is due for a renewal/renegotiation ... and considering i just witnessed a once in a decade tragedy literally on my fucking doorstep, i think i will pack my things and leave.Dilbert_X wrote:
So what did that mean exactly? Sounds like a ski-bum following the weather TBHGTFO’ing this district in november....i don’t think this area will recover
and fuck you if my language wasn't apropos or fine-tuned enough for you. i was posting on my phone at 5.30am after watching hell unfold for six hours. i spent 4 frantic hours on the phone to everyone i know here, trying to ascertain their whereabouts. trains were closed. taxis were unavailable. emergency buses had to be arranged. it was a clusterfuck.Dilbert_X wrote:
So what did that mean exactly? Sounds like a ski-bum following the weather TBHGTFO’ing this district in november....i don’t think this area will recover
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Follow up to this...I took the Chinese girl to the mall today. I was feeling bad about some of the stuff the baby fever lady said to me. Really told me off. I ended up buying the Chinese girl a $300 rose gold Bengal and charm from Pandora.SuperJail Warden wrote:
I don't know. I think she was right about all of the things she said. I do think her "I can see through your act" thing was a bit meh. I could have kept the act up and gotten away with it. I didn't say that to her. I just apologized and agreed with what she said. It must have been a weird argument for her. She said something red flag while she was telling me off "I have been engaged before." (!)uziq wrote:
well she was perhaps close to the mark with your slightly oleaginous and ingratiating way with women. maybe you do manipulate them thus. the ‘nice guy’ act.
but is this the same girl who was asking you to shoot up her ovaries? who is raging at you on the phone following a family bereavement? she is way out of line. borderline insane. not worth the hassle. that’s a ‘No’ from me bro. your sins are small change in comparison to the capital-c Crazy she’s exhibiting.
The first third of the telling off, (it wasn't an argument. I may manipulate girls and love bomb them but I don't hit them, yell at them or degrade. Low bar to clear I know but I am not a monster. I am good at conversation and knowledgeable about stuff.) She was trying to convince me to keep up talking to her and stuff for the first third of the conversation until I dropped a "I hope you find the person you are looking for but it isn't me." Then she gasped and turned kind of vicious and belittling to me.
Before all of this I told her my long-term plans and became somewhat belittling to them. She mentioned a bunch of times something that reenforced my "this isn't what I want right now." I mentioned that I wasn't ready for all of that she said "I know you started your career late but I am successful and accomplished at 30 and I am ready blah blah blah". I think the first time she said that was when I apologized for "gassing her up." She snapped at me about how she didn't need me to feel good about herself because she is the blah blah all of the above. I was a bit worried about the fact that we come from two such widely different social classes. I cringe at that thought of dealing with her family and being the broke black guy teacher who knocked the rich white lady banker up as soon as he met her. Her entire family would cringe at her dating down so much. I guess that is something I would just need to get over but the fact that she held her success over my head for a moment and belittled my long-term plans was a "true colors" situation. There would be a other time in our lives together when she would drop her success like a bomb on me while also making sure I look nice for the "House Hunters" episode she probably imagined us doing.
The last 10 minutes of the whole thing I was bored. After she hanged up on me I went to browsing Reddit and looking at memes.
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A minute after she hanged up on me she sent a text saying "Delete my number from your phone because you aren't worth my time." I think she wanted more attention because she could have just clicked the block number feature on her phone and never have to worry about messages from me ever again. She is still Facebook friends with me and didn't block me on messenger. She didn't block me on the dating app either. I can still see our conversation and her profile. As much as she is angry at me, I can also believe she would take the "love bomb attention" again if I grovelled. She said at one point "I knew you were on a date last night and I am okay with that." She said I was somewhat feminine and asked if I was a a closeted gay or bisexual (???) I laughed at that one considering I am on a mission to bust out as many girls as I can. She then said she is "Okay with dating a bisexual guy because she has before." (?!) She also was happy to let me know she dated a string of (more) successful men and had friends in the white house and Congress blah blah.
Okay, darling. Where are those successful men now? Why are you yelling at me on a 1 AM Saturday morning instead of swiping on Facebook Dating?
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The whole thing makes me appreciate the Chinese girl more. I came home and looked at jewelry for her. I want to get her something nice for being so mentally stable.
i’m going to fly to dilbert on my honeymoon and beat him with my removed sandal.Larssen wrote:
So uh, where to next?
Cultural appropriation!uziq wrote:
i’m going to fly to dilbert on my honeymoon and beat him with my removed sandal.Larssen wrote:
So uh, where to next?
Why Dumbo?SuperJail Warden wrote:
The charm itself was a Disney Dumbo one. $70 for maybe pennies of silver.
The bracelet is this one.
https://us.pandora.net/en/jewelry/pando … 87132.html
you are honestly unwell. impulse buying a $300 piece of tat because an insane woman sent you a few negative texts? to assuage your guilty conscience? this is not normal behaviour my guy. you should be spending that money on time alone on your journey to wellness.SuperJail Warden wrote:
Follow up to this...I took the Chinese girl to the mall today. I was feeling bad about some of the stuff the baby fever lady said to me. Really told me off. I ended up buying the Chinese girl a $300 rose gold Bengal and charm from Pandora.
She looked at me and asked a few times "what did you do? 😂 👀"
The girl made many good points. Some I have taken to heart. I am grateful to her.uziq wrote:
you are honestly unwell. impulse buying a $300 piece of tat because an insane woman sent you a few negative texts? to assuage your guilty conscience? this is not normal behaviour my guy. you should be spending that money on time alone on your journey to wellness.SuperJail Warden wrote:
Follow up to this...I took the Chinese girl to the mall today. I was feeling bad about some of the stuff the baby fever lady said to me. Really told me off. I ended up buying the Chinese girl a $300 rose gold Bengal and charm from Pandora.
She looked at me and asked a few times "what did you do? 😂 👀"
Pandora is overpriced mass-produced kitsch by the way. don’t do that again. ‘a fool and his money are easily parted’.
Disney licenses a wild collection of jewelry.unnamednewbie13 wrote:
Spiderman jewelry is featured prominently on its new arrivals. Who is this stuff marketed to?
we see each other every 2/3 weekends maybe. a couple times a month.SuperJail Warden wrote:
The girl in your pictures...what is up with that?
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