BF2S Forums Asian Female Appreciation Thread #7

SuperJail Warden wrote:

Two Asian women in 2 months. Only took 7 threads to get there.

I am not an incel or have to pay for it. A low bar that some here still struggle with.

How different are Asian girls from whites/latinas?

I'd be somewhat embarrassed to be with an Asian as a white guy because of the stereotypes. Average white dude would suffer less to his self esteem by fucking an escort vs dating an Asian

the only difference i found with an asian was she was a bit more submissive but that was because her ex was abusive, apart from that the same as any other I've been with.

The Asian girls I have dated explicitly told me they don't date Asian guys because Asian guys are too conservative and traditional. That's racist itself but who am I to question their lived experience?

Last edited by SuperJail Warden (2022-06-27 12:10:50)

uziq wrote:

^ precisely, it’s impossible to generalise based on race. depends on their family/upbringing, their life experiences, their personalities … you know, almost like they’re human beings with autonomy.

the ‘submissive asian’ thing might make sense if you’re a creepy foreign guy looking for a wife in a poor south-east asian country. that’s because you’re literally shopping for a wife in a country where you’re rich by default, and where often lots of old colonial-era ideas stick around. not because they’re asian. loser westerner who flexes his western income to find a wife from an impoverished background ends up in a transactional and submissive marriage, in breaking news shocker.

date a businesswoman from HK/japan, or meet an educated korean-american, and tell me they’re ‘submissive’. all the racial essentialism is gross and cringe tbh.

This is what I was saying. U know what I mean. Btw I wasn't trying to say you're one of those ppl

I remember u posting pics of hot white chicks u were dating so this doesn't apply to u. I'm talking about the sad white dudes with Thai and Filipino girls

SuperJail Warden wrote:

lil_droo wrote:

uziq wrote:

^ precisely, it’s impossible to generalise based on race. depends on their family/upbringing, their life experiences, their personalities … you know, almost like they’re human beings with autonomy.

the ‘submissive asian’ thing might make sense if you’re a creepy foreign guy looking for a wife in a poor south-east asian country. that’s because you’re literally shopping for a wife in a country where you’re rich by default, and where often lots of old colonial-era ideas stick around. not because they’re asian. loser westerner who flexes his western income to find a wife from an impoverished background ends up in a transactional and submissive marriage, in breaking news shocker.

date a businesswoman from HK/japan, or meet an educated korean-american, and tell me they’re ‘submissive’. all the racial essentialism is gross and cringe tbh.

This is what I was saying. U know what I mean. Btw I wasn't trying to say you're one of those ppl

I remember u posting pics of hot white chicks u were dating so this doesn't apply to u. I'm talking about the sad white dudes with Thai and Filipino girls

Filipino girls are hot. I love their tan skin and dark features.

I think Korean chicks are the hottest but idk much about Asian girls. I've only been with white and Hispanic

SuperJail Warden wrote:

The Asian girls I have dated explicitly told me they don't date Asian guys because Asian guys are too conservative and traditional. That's racist itself but who am I to question their lived experience?

it goes both ways. there’s a joke among korean men that the best dating advice is to never, ever marry a korean girl. korean wives have a fearsome reputation for being assertive rather than submissive, and for henpecking their husbands with very high expectations and many demands.

this comes from an insanely competitive culture rather than race. but of course you know that.

i’ve only been in a relationship with a very rich HK and a korean. my experience has been the very opposite of meeting someone submissive and who is going to be impressed by the pure fact of you being white/foreign. it’s the 21st century. half of asia is ultra-developed and has per capita GDPs on level with average western european economies. they are not that impressed by whitie. you better believe that you need something to bring to the table to sufficiently impress them/their families for relationship material, let alone marriage (and there’s many negative stereotypes about the low-achieving types who come to east asia to teach ABCs to kindergarteners and so on; pretty well the opposite of ‘white dude claims free submissive asian’).

Last edited by uziq (2022-06-27 17:02:29)

fantastic take, creep.

I appreciate my asian girlfriend a lot.

don't forget dauntless.

uziq wrote:

the ‘submissive asian’ thing might make sense if you’re a creepy foreign guy looking for a wife in a poor south-east asian country. that’s because you’re literally shopping for a wife in a country where you’re rich by default, and where often lots of old colonial-era ideas stick around. not because they’re asian. loser westerner who flexes his western income to find a wife from an impoverished background ends up in a transactional and submissive marriage, in breaking news shocker.

So speaking hypothetically how would one go about choosing which country though?

I guess it would take a multi-variable equation with weightings for a number of factors.

Annoying voice
Surprise relatives you have to support
Ability to earn their own money - I'm fucked if I'm doing all the heavy lifting
Obedience
Likelihood they'll get smart and clean you out once they've got their visa

Asking for a friend

OK maybe not the poorest then, lets factor those out.

Thanks but I need realistic suggestions, not pie in the sky.

Also I have CAD at my desk, CAM in the shed.