Poll

How often do you/did you fight with them?

Every day9%9% - 2
Few times a week4%4% - 1
Once a week4%4% - 1
Few times every month9%9% - 2
Once a month0%0% - 0
Handful a year18%18% - 4
Rarely, if ever54%54% - 12
Total: 22
RoosterCantrell
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Well?  I am saying general fighting, arguing, that last a good while, at least leaving both a little edgy.  Not little spats that blow over a few minutes later.

This poll is more for people who are, or have been in a long relationship.  Longer being at very LEAST 6 months.

I just wonder because i've been fighting alot more, and am curious about the consensus.
KEN-JENNINGS
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Usually only when I get really drunk and act like an ass.

Maybe a few times a month.

Last edited by KEN-JENNINGS (2008-02-22 20:19:29)

bennisboy
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Dont worry about it, you go through periods of tension, they usually end up makin the realtionship stronger when you get through them
RoosterCantrell
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bennisboy wrote:

Dont worry about it, you go through periods of tension, they usually end up makin the realtionship stronger when you get through them
oh no.  Don't worry.  This is NOT D&ST.  I didn't post there for that reason.  I'm perfectly o.k. right now. Fights are fights, if it ends, it ends.  Happens.  IT would suck, but that's life.

But, I do appreciate the words, thanks.
bennisboy
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RoosterCantrell wrote:

bennisboy wrote:

Dont worry about it, you go through periods of tension, they usually end up makin the realtionship stronger when you get through them
oh no.  Don't worry.  This is NOT D&ST.  I didn't post there for that reason.  I'm perfectly o.k. right now. Fights are fights, if it ends, it ends.  Happens.  IT would suck, but that's life.

But, I do appreciate the words, thanks.
Ah cool, I thought you were worried. But it looks like we are all happy
some_random_panda
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Not often, but I'm really passive so I just let her have her way.  It's not like it's a big deal anyway.
RoosterCantrell
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bennisboy wrote:

RoosterCantrell wrote:

bennisboy wrote:

Dont worry about it, you go through periods of tension, they usually end up makin the realtionship stronger when you get through them
oh no.  Don't worry.  This is NOT D&ST.  I didn't post there for that reason.  I'm perfectly o.k. right now. Fights are fights, if it ends, it ends.  Happens.  IT would suck, but that's life.

But, I do appreciate the words, thanks.
Ah cool, I thought you were worried. But it looks like we are all happy
well,  our fights are getting worse.  But this isn't one of THOSE threads. Which those threads are fine . It's just this isn't one of them
EDIT:

some_random_panda wrote:

Not often, but I'm really passive so I just let her have her way.  It's not like it's a big deal anyway.
Oh man I can't do that.  I have to stick up for what I feel is right.  Otherwise, I fear I'll end up being that soulless guy you see in the grocery store that has the look of suicide on his face, being dragged around by his lady as they mutually hate the others' existance.

Course, maybe I should try to lighten up a bit.   hmmm...

Last edited by RoosterCantrell (2008-02-22 20:27:46)

some_random_panda
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RoosterCantrell wrote:

bennisboy wrote:

RoosterCantrell wrote:


oh no.  Don't worry.  This is NOT D&ST.  I didn't post there for that reason.  I'm perfectly o.k. right now. Fights are fights, if it ends, it ends.  Happens.  IT would suck, but that's life.

But, I do appreciate the words, thanks.
Ah cool, I thought you were worried. But it looks like we are all happy
well,  our fights are getting worse.  But this isn't one of THOSE threads. Which those threads are fine . It's just this isn't one of them
EDIT:

some_random_panda wrote:

Not often, but I'm really passive so I just let her have her way.  It's not like it's a big deal anyway.
Oh man I can't do that.  I have to stick up for what I feel is right.  Otherwise, I fear I'll end up being that soulless guy you see in the grocery store that has the look of suicide on his face, being dragged around by his lady as they mutually hate the others' existance.

Course, maybe I should try to lighten up a bit.   hmmm...
- the thing is that I know that my intellect is quite better than hers.  Thus when it seems she's won, if you look back, you'll realise that the conclusion had nothing to do with the argument in the first place, and she's just won something she already had.  It might be a little "tight" on my part, but there's been no major arguments lately.
RoosterCantrell
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some_random_panda wrote:

- the thing is that I know that my intellect is quite better than hers.  Thus when it seems she's won, if you look back, you'll realise that the conclusion had nothing to do with the argument in the first place, and she's just won something she already had.  It might be a little "tight" on my part, but there's been no major arguments lately.
Ahh. Well, usually the fights are me mentioning something that bothers me, and escalating from there.  Which she continues to do the same damn shit that bothers me anyway.

Fuck it.  I like your idea. I'll give that a try.
Stingray24
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Varies.  I've been married to my wife for almost 6 years, with her for 8.  Lately, seems a couple times per month.  Other times, we'll go for months and be just fine.  Then there's those "what the heck is going on" weeks were it seems we just don't like each other.
geNius
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If fighting becomes more frequent, it typically means you're on the downhill run.
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Funky_Finny
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Null, I'm single. Seeing someone though
bennisboy
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Lol, also my rents argue every day almost (usually multiple times each day), They've been together 30 years, altho only got married when I was 11

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