lowing wrote:
Bertster7 wrote:
lowing wrote:
Like I said, I freely admit, my judging these people is my problem not theirs, and I do not support legislation against this behavior. I would rather us as parents spend more time with our kids and teach them a little respect. For, wearing your clothes where your ass crack, underwear, or dick hanging out is not acceptable dress, and should not be considered so
If I am stereotyping, then those that dress and ACT like this, plays directly into it. Some blame for my opinion about their attitude and dress goes directly toward the very behavior they emulate.
Or maybe it is your ignorance (and by that I mean, you probably haven't hung around with as many "saggers" socially as I have) of this MASSIVE youth trend which is giving you a slanted view on how they act. Skateboarders for example, what behaviour are they emulating that is so awful? Lots of kids like skateboarding and are "saggers", but don't fit in with this culture of violence and crime that you associate with "saggers".
If your problem is simply that you don't like the way it looks and you find it disrespectful, then fine. But don't try to burden what is a huge group of people from a wide variety of backgrounds with some sort of criminal/worthless stigma.
Yer right I haven't, but I am also not blind. I go to the malls,I take my kids to the skate parks, ( by the way, my kids skate just fine with their dicks tucked into their pants) etc..... and I find their behavior to match their dress (generally). Disrespectful, foolish, and gangsta acting.
The other thing is, there is a reason legislation is being passed to curtail this shit, it is exactly because it is over the top and communities feel forced to step in and take over as parent, telling these people what they can wear and what they can't. Ya know like parents are supposed to do. Yeah thats right, the local govts. are forced to become parents because the parents refuse to do their jobs as parents. This is the problem and the basis for the thread. Our moral declination as a society.
Now like I said I do not support legislation on this issue, but it is time parents started parenting again.
Not blind no, but you nothing about these people other than what you see at face value. I think I've shown that a large enough proportion of young people have at one point been saggers for it to be fairly obvious that there is any real economic factor. So lets ignore that point and focus on the moral decline of society.
Basically, you're just saying you have a problem with Hip Hop. Which is what this trend os associated with. Not prison. Not gangstas. Not acting like fools. All those associations are, at best, secondary. Hip Hop is the largest youth culture in the world (further demonstrating my point that they cannot be a drain on the economy because there are so many it would be absurd).
Personally, I like Hip Hop. I have no time for muppets like 50 Cent, Puff Daddy, the Game or any of those other pricks who use their (crap) music simply to boast about having lots of money and shooting people. That's not what Hip Hop is about. Although with some of the biggest most popular Hip Hop artists today being such pricks I can see where a lot of peoples hatred of it comes from.
It's all about understanding. I understand that there are elements of Hip Hop culture that are self destructive and anti-social - they weren't there to begin with, but a lot of mainstream Hip Hop has been going that way for a long time. Blaming that on a style of dress is silly and if you understood this issue better you might get that. If anything it is the capitalist aspirations of poverty stricken youth which drive this trend, which is driven by the record companies promoting more of that sort of crap, which leads to wider exposure and eclipses the sort of music that Hip Hop was all about when the movement began. Are the people who've moved Hip Hop in this direction pricks? Yes. Are all people into Hip Hop foolish idiots with no sense of respect? No.
You need to think a bit more about these things. Something pisses you off and you blame everything even vaguely associated. You need to stop castigating big diverse groups and focus more on smaller, less diverse groups and/or individuals - what I'm basically saying is you generalise too much and you need to learn more about what pisses you off and find out who is to blame, not just everyone you immediately associate with it based on your gut instinct.