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My overall impression from his come & go posts is that a lot of mixed messages have been sent. A piece of jewelry like that is usually covered in the standard The Talk that parents should have with their kids, right? "I'd like us get serious!" piece of non-engagement bling, a level of courtship even a $50 chain could account for.

But then, "we can still see other people, right?" But then, "you saw other people, I don't think I can do this anymore." What an emotional roller coaster. How's a girl to react?

Is this even the same woman we're talking about? I swear it changes like once a week.

Last edited by unnamednewbie13 (2022-12-05 10:35:57)

I am not perfect and I realize I sent this girl on an emotional rollercoaster. I didn't understand how my actions affected her. And I took her emotions for granted. I learned important lessons and I will do better next time.

I did enjoy having a monogamous relationship for as long as it lasted. That is definitely something I would want again with a different person.

I am not angry at her or anything. I wish her the best. I am grateful to her for the opportunity to practice being in a relationship with someone. I am sorry I turned her into a puddle and I spent like 12 hours yesterday on the phone with her while she was laid up in bed depressed.

I DID NOT reactivate my dating apps. I want to just be single and work on myself until spring maybe summer. I have some graduate stuff I needed to do. When spring rolls back around, I am not going to be weird about getting as much as I can. I was sad yesterday when I didn't get a 'Good morning' text from her.

We had some fundamental differences in life and if she or anyone else said I used this as an opportunity to break up with her while also loading her with the blame for it I wouldn't debate it.

You should have thought about how he felt when you had sex with Uzique

You lie there and take it - Adams told me.

Cash only, mind you some girls have portable DD machines.

People = Pain

How do you not know this?

I think I might just become an incel because I am exhausted

I have to be nice and maybe go out with her again since she got me a Roomba for Christmas. A nice one. She told me she got it but I didn't get it yet. So I need to give her attention and time until I can get the Roomba.

That sounds like something a person without an automated vacuum cleaner would say.

I never knew I wanted one until she bought it.

After a year of not dating I've taken to tinder. First world problem here, but I'm facing choice overload. I swipe selectively and am getting all the matches I want. Have 3 dates planned in the span of a week.

Maybe I should stop swiping and continue again after I've had the dates cause keeping 5+ conversations going with 3 dates upcoming is confusing and doesnt feel all that right.

I don't have social media so no issues there. Date #1 is  down and brother did I get catfished lmao. She was a good looking girl but didnt resemble her pictures at all.

This was actually my first online date ever haha. God the first 5 minutes of this stuff are awkward as fuck

Last edited by Larssen (2022-12-11 07:58:25)

Because planning literal first dates is like whatever trainwrecks you got involved in? I stopped reading pages ago.