You might as well be in Staten Island. Sure as shit ain't high density like downtown Brooklyn or Manhattan.SuperJail Warden wrote:
What makes you think people don't build personal connections in cities?
I don't live in the suburbs. My city has a population density of 11,000 people per square mile.
Transience precludes lasting connections in most cases. People don't rent the same apartment for 50 years unless they have a grandfathered rent controlled one. They move around. Most people who live in NYC come from elsewhere and either move back, move to a different city, or move out to the suburbs.
You have millions of interactions every day with total strangers and everyone forms their own protective shell to shield themselves from the wanton assholeness of the people they interact with every day. Do you understand how tiring it is dealing with people who know they can do whatever they want because there are no social consequences? People here know they can be an asshole with impunity because they likely won't ever be seen the impacted person ever again. This anonymity is a blessing for people who feel like they are outsiders in "normal" society, but it has some major downsides.
As for services like power, lighting, roads, gas etc. I pay for that with my property taxes and utility bills so what do you care?
"Ah, you miserable creatures! You who think that you are so great! You who judge humanity to be so small! You who wish to reform everything! Why don't you reform yourselves? That task would be sufficient enough."
-Frederick Bastiat
-Frederick Bastiat