what does the first 2 columns mean in the multi player game selection lobby in BF2?? what does all those symbols mean in the second column?

Also i noticed the other day that while i was being the commander, a exclamation mark ( ! ) appeared and flashed over one of the squad leaders, what does this mean?
thanks anyone for any help

Also i noticed the other day that while i was being the commander, a exclamation mark ( ! ) appeared and flashed over one of the squad leaders, what does this mean?
thanks anyone for any help